The ambition of lifetime of a lot of people seeks the other in part that can agree with him namely, then the pursuit of camp of battalion of draw water draw water at love, be like his is half circle only, if cannot complete a circle, the heart can have a kind to be short of regret. But is the result that pursues regrettablly always things go contrary to one's wishes... is this why?
We often were killed by kill of this kind of thought body and mind: Want to achieve ─ of ─ of a purpose to marry only intently, think the life of the other one aspect of the matter that steps red carpet only just is satisfactory. Why cannot think oneself had been a complete circle however? Only first correct cognitive ability must be not pursued blindly. Its depend on seeing others is geminate and didymous respectively, won't again self-pity, from moxa, complain him solitary oneself. You can be known enjoy loneliness, have an eye for doleful.
Once had some of friend because be afraid of doleful and want to marry missed a head, even each other see do not come out violent tendency even each other, after be being hit to get a bloody nose and a swollen face head resembling a pig by him even, they return obstinately stick to a wrong course, think that is the show that cannot be dominated oneself to insanity by love, the likelihood returns be pleased with oneself to have this kind of your person to lose sensible glamour.
Nevertheless of course this kind of man besides can give a woman " fist " , he can give first a few " benefit " , prepare food personally for example, massage comfortable, sexual love contented, when you vassal... , let you see these only " advantage " and oversight wrap up " the injury is in " , because do not arrange his intention one day when, you become vent one's anger bag.
People is in Yue of two affection photograph when, no matter be appetite or sexual desire,can become flay a flint, require search excessive, as if appetite is maintained big forever also be on short commons; But when emotional strike a reef when, human desire has the place of its applicable to both or all, these two kinds of desires are met again as was being gotten " anorexia disease " or " empty disease " . Feed no less than pharynx to form ego to abandon " anorexia disease " , with the extreme come in order to eat of fill heart reach emptily abreact malcontent, and form abandonment " empty disease " .
No matter be you,suffer from above what disease, do not want the attitude with suppliance absolutely, because your proper pride can be trampled be on the ground by him, do not do the thing that can let already got double harm oneself. Get anorexia disease to appear compared with the person of empty disease quite so clear heart few desire have not bad, won't reduce the men and women of libidinal street car at least, it is the regret is not built only on want to push the car that go up, it is next when in the still of night self-affected, go-between seeing looking glass is gaunter and gaunter, is your heart conceivable his compunctious or commiserative? Be still ego retaliation, mistreat oneself? Be being changed however is you see the other side is abandon oneself to vice, do not become person entity, you can rejoice certainly run quickly, won't want to see him more more. So herewith of person herewith heart, heart manages, do not want anorexia already at this moment also need not empty, no matter have the feeling of the result,must want you actually can " spirit is independent " .
Because although married eventually one day, it is OK to think from now on is Bai Shouxie old? Your spouse or organic meeting betray you, extramarital affair can let you feel be like the anguish that is immersed in beyond redemption. Your body and mind suffers achieve damage, it is you build self-confidence affirm to yours in him, you put the hope on his body, so once did not have him, the reason that you think your world is destroyed entirely. So I reiterate I am a complete circle, complete individual this idea, want to remind pair of future spouses the person of too much dream knows Fu Yu namely, should be alive under responsible to oneself life premise, the idea that hereat has invigorative independence is must.
Understanding man talks about love again
If you understood following criterion, can find happy marriage very quickly probably.
One, the man in modelling an ideal can be to scheme without avail only
Actually the woman has the issue with a lot of higher return rate to be able to be done, must not the sweethearts that of one mind is thinking to press his volition to model his afresh, because be done in that way,can cause failure only, be shoe the goose.
2, " children " type and " old woman " type all fails
What man place needs is mature lover, can become his friend already, can become his partner again, is to need a minor charming woman anything but. Usually, fragile and dye-in-the-wood woman perhaps is good at operating the female of other can let man take a flight only.
3, indignant meeting of the woman is frightened run all men
Say normally, the woman that always has had amative experience is in when knowing new man, have a kind of fury and resentment always to the lover of former days, and the anger this kind former days often makes new associate feels extremely scared.
4, often brush a shoulder with a lot of good men and pass
Optimal quality of the person often is discovered not easily, be in only get along a phase when just can put a ray greatly. Say the woman discovers the good man beside them very hard at a draught so, instead by those apparently " tasteful and cheesy " man place puzzles. Actually this kind of brilliant and free and easy man can give a woman only with initial enthusiasm, may dedicate to chaperon anything but abiding love.
5, the female's expectation is changed do not come good love
What some kind of expect can appear be less than at any time in the life is surprizing, because people did not expect the happening of surprise appearance painstakingly,this is. The man is fed up with a female to have some kind to expect to love life, because they prefer,see everything happen in nature. Accordingly, the female expects overly to be able to bring about the life to become as dry as a chip and drab only, lack is intimate.
6, the woman that knows the life always is firm soft develop simultaneously
Of the female resolute the miracle that creates amative life quite with perfect binding energy of warmth, make the association between the opposite sex becomes healthy and rich emotional appeal. Clever woman has an eye for the glamour of the female on him body, also believe oneself are capable to attract the lover in her memory at the same time. Be opposite because of her oneself are confident, so ability shows the female's peculiar softness on resolute foundation.
7, " look for " sweetheart must active and active
Fine man won't fall from the day, must rely on her woman to create an opportunity to be striven for actively. Clever woman is awaiting sweetheart won't inactively absolutely appear, they can hit out actively, grasp an opportunity successfully, discover and get the man's love. This kind of female knows the pleasure in enjoying love process, as to the love that can obtain the opposite sex finally, not be the most important however, at least she had endeavored, and the feeling that has a joy.
8, romantic love needs somewhat diversionary
The man spirit in love is in excited condition from beginning to end, this is very natural. That is to say, when the man is seeking a woman, his state of mind is active, at the same time also part is excited. But, once they got wanted thing, excited mood is met subsequently die, feel exciting no longer. Accordingly, the distance sense that keeps certain with the other side and secret touch conduce to the amative relationship with long evolution.
9, the acceptance that the man does not speak love
The man is not willing in love the woman in order to cross much acceptance, do not make commitment at all even, this is the woman is guessed all the time not mystery. Although they had passed their action to express their position, but the verbal commitment that should receive them however very not easy. Clever woman knows the shock that how arouses man spirit with clever language, force them to give commitment to love.
Above criterion is the factor that the woman ought to consider when choosing good man, have stated specific aim and direct sense occasionally to female choose.
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